Men dating several women once
The situation can be a minefield, so here are a couple of ground rules for being an ethical he-ho.Let's face it: We live in a culture where judging others tends to be the norm.On the other hand, sometimes women are way off-base with how they perceive men.This is especially true when it comes to the perception of men in society who are constantly dating different women. If a man dates many women and is single past a certain age, women often make the assumption that he must be flawed in some way, a womanizer or a man that refuse to grow up. However, "rotations allow you to date other people at the same time, giving you some perspective on the dating process," relationship expert April Masini told Refinery29. While it's long been accepted that men "play the field," it's not something that seems to be talked about as much by women. I don’t want to get into a relationship too quickly?
This makes perfect sense from the outside looking in.(Although, I guess she broke for Sunday, so there was that.)I don't know if it's because of Cameron Crowe movies or disease panic or protracted adolescence, but my generation believed that when you really liked somebody, you should like them solely and exclusively, even obsessively. But for those of us still single, relad ideas about monogamy and the facility of the Internet have produced a new golden age of slutty aunts.If a guy gave you a mix CD of Radiohead songs because it felt like giving you "a pint of his own blood," and then he gave girl a pint of his own blood, it sort of cheapens the gesture. I know guys who date multiple women like they're filling out an elimination bracket, and I know guys who date multiple women because they get easily bored by one set of nipples.Couldn’t you ‘experiment’ with one person for a few dates, see how it goes, and then move on? Do the people who you are dating know that you’re potentially wasting their time? As people no matter what they tell you, don’t always date for the same reasons, dating someone and getting to know them will let you determine through their actions and interactions (not just words and your imagination) whether you are two people on the same page with similar primary values. Who said you have to go straight to a relationship? A couple of weeks ago I wrote about why dating is a discovery phase for fact finding.